Pet Love - Pet Aging - Pet Loss Grief Specialist - Nationwide
Losing your beloved companion animal is devastating--more so than we're usually prepared for.
I’m a psychotherapist and a pet-loss grief specialist. I say “specialist” because my work with pet parents who have lost or are soon to lose a pet is a special kind of work—reflecting the special relationship we have with our companion animals. Pet love is different from other love; a thing wonderfully apart.
Just as pet love is different from human love, pet-loss is different from human loss. Society, not so wise about any kind of grief, often doesn’t recognize this special relationship that each of us has with our pets. It doesn’t validate the depth of the heartbreak pet parents feel when their beloved companion animal dies, and can make them feel embarrassed, even ashamed, when they need support. (Just try asking your boss for a day at home when your cat dies.) Friends and family often channel the disinterest of the culture, and when they say things like, “Just get on with it” or, worse, “Hey, just get another cat,” pet-parents despair of ever being understood.
Even before the actual loss occurs, the challenges involved in beginning the process of grieving can be daunting. Not more difficult, not easier, but quite different from the challenges of grieving other losses.
Many people come in feeling surprised at the intensity of their grief. It's my job to help them plan for and manage the death of their pets as carefully, knowledgeably, and lovingly as I help clients through any other devastating loss. So we create a sanctuary, a place to honor the love of pets, and to honor their loss; a place where pet parents can express whatever they feel, fully, without embarrassment or shame. The goal is not just to alleviate the pain of the loss, but to continue a relationship, albeit obviously a different one, with their beloved pet. Contrary to the common wisdom, time alone cannot do that kind of healing. (If time did heal all wounds, I wouldn’t see so many people still sad ten years later.) A loss as big as a love needs help to heal.
Please contact and book me on Petworks. Thank You.
- Licensed
- Certified
- Insured
- Online Sessions
Pricing Packages
Let's see if we're a fit and if I can help you.
While this sounds like a short amount of time, I have found that many clients who are under duress--for example, those having to make sudden decisions about their ailing pets--appreciate it. They can be longer, of course, as needed.
How do you serve precious pets?
- Pet Loss Grief Counselor
- Pet Bereavement
- Pet Loss Support
How do you help pet parents honor the lives of their pets and cope with difficult loss?
- Pet Loss Grief Counseling
What licensing do you have?
- Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW)
Pet Certifications
- American Academy of Grief Counseling Certification
- Certified Pet Loss Professional (CPLP)
Proud member of...
- American Psychological Association
- Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB)
Cat-astrophes happen! What is your cancellation policy?
- 24 hours notice required
Education
BA, University of Southern California; MSW, New York University
Which part of the country do you serve pets?
Serve pet-parents globally on phone, Zoom and FaceTime. In-person sessions are in my office in Fairfield, CT.
What year did you begin serving pets?
2018
How did you hone your craft?
By working with those suffering from grief of all kinds, before working with pet parents.
What is one thing you want pet parents to know about you? It can be whatev-fur you'd like!
I have spent decades listening to those whose voices are traditionally not heard. Which is how many grieving pet parents feel.
How do you serve precious pets?
- Pet Loss Grief Counselor
- Pet Bereavement
- Pet Loss Support
How do you help pet parents honor the lives of their pets and cope with difficult loss?
- Pet Loss Grief Counseling
What licensing do you have?
- Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW)
Pet Certifications
- American Academy of Grief Counseling Certification
- Certified Pet Loss Professional (CPLP)
Proud member of...
- American Psychological Association
- Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB)
Cat-astrophes happen! What is your cancellation policy?
- 24 hours notice required
Education
BA, University of Southern California; MSW, New York University
Which part of the country do you serve pets?
Serve pet-parents globally on phone, Zoom and FaceTime. In-person sessions are in my office in Fairfield, CT.
What year did you begin serving pets?
2018
How did you hone your craft?
By working with those suffering from grief of all kinds, before working with pet parents.
What is one thing you want pet parents to know about you? It can be whatev-fur you'd like!
I have spent decades listening to those whose voices are traditionally not heard. Which is how many grieving pet parents feel.
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